Finally!!!!! I finally got the results of my cat scan, and they came back negative. Thank you God!!! Every time I think about the email my doctor sent me and the words that were in it I get very emotional. It is such a relief that I do not have any cancer in my chest. Now we just have to watch my neck closely, I am so ready for this whole ordeal to be over with. I'm over being sick. I'm ready to move on with my life after almost a year of dealing with this, it feels like its not stop blood work, tests or going to the doctors.
Now it's time to tell you the story of my wonderful trip up to the hospital.I asked them to schedule me for later in the day. It was the day of my daughter's first field trip ever and they were going to a pumpkin patch. I had the opportunity to take the whole family so I didn't want to miss this. Every time we have family moments I always try to take them, and every single time I always stop to think how lucky I am to be able to do this, how I am still here and get to see my children grow and learn. Don't get me wrong I appreciated it before but now I am so lucky and thankful to God, to my doctors to be able to share this with them.
We all had a blast going and my girls got to do things they have never done before and I was there to share it with them, then before we knew it, it was time to take my kids back home so I could get ready for the drive to the city.
I drove the way up there because my husband was tired having worked the night before and only getting a few hours of sleep. This was my first time driving, I knew traffic would be bad but I never thought I was have to deal with rush out in the middle of the day. Needless to say it was the worst drive of my life, traffic was so congested, at one point in time there was an almost accident right in front of my on the highway. We left at 2:30 and got there just at 4. (my appointment was for 3:45.) My husband slept most of the way while I was trying not to pass out from all of the anxiety I was experiencing from these scary Pittsburgh drivers. When we finally got there I was shaking, but we made it, and if needed to I guess I could do it on my own.
I got signed in and ran over to radiology for my cat scan. I was bummed to find out I wouldn't know my results for a few days, as I didn't want to come back up for something else.
The worst part of it was listening to the noise the machine makes when it spins around. They are traumatizing sounds that instantly remind me of diagnosis and treatment, and no matter how wonder the staff/hospital is it just not take away from the trauma it gives you to live with for a very long time.
I was in and out in less than an hour, and I always try to do something positive while
I'm up there to combat the negative since the only reason we go up there is for cancer stuff. I got the idea in my head to go to the cheesecake factory, I've never been there before and I looked up the whole menu. Jimmy at first was a go then he decided that it would be better if we just went home, he was very tired and said that if he went to a sit down restaurant he would fall asleep. I was a little upset, I was really looking forward to it, I thought we don't get to spend a lot of alone time together and it might be limited knowing my situation. He asked if I was mad and I said slightly, which then made him wavier in whether or not we would go, he got lost downtown and was just trying to get home, also rear-ended a car, then nearly hit two pedestrians crossing the road, this then made him mad and he took it out me since it was my fault we got lost trying to find the cheesecake factory. I began to cry and he yelled at me for crying over the cheesecake factory. I was not crying over the cheesecake factory, I was crying over the whole situation. The fact that I was up there for another test, the fact that they think I might have cancer somewhere else, the fact that my life might be shortened, and the fact that I was hungry.
I understand that it is stressful for family members to go through this also as they are scared for their loved one and truly no one know whats going to go on. I understand that from time to time my husband would think about what would happen if he was left to raise the kids, the girls by himself. That is all very scary, but when it comes down to it, they don't have much idea what is going on in your head, the person who is going through this, the person who thinks what if they can't cure me, what will happen to my children. I have said this time and time before cancer, at least for me is more of an emotional roller coaster more than anything and I am ready to get off this ride now!!!!
So as for my cat scan being negative, my doctor was very hopeful in saying that I will probably be fine, we just have to keep an eye on these lesions in my neck, more repeat blood work in a couple of months, followed by another ultrasound and an office visit with the doc. At least I don't to worry about anything until after the holidays and I can breathe for a little while.